Most people treat a wandering mind like a defect. They see it as a leak in their productivity bucket.
- “Time to get back to work.”
- “Stop daydreaming.”
We’ve been conditioned to believe that if we aren’t staring at a screen or checking off a to-do list, we are failing.
But Daniel Goleman, the psychologist who popularized Emotional Intelligence, argues the opposite in his book Focus:
“The mind’s wandering is a source of creative ideas… The problem is not that our minds wander; it’s that they wander away from what matters.”
That line matters because it exposes a modern lie: You can’t be “on” all the time.
But when you try to stay “on” 24/7, you don’t actually get more done.
You just become mentally exhausted, less creative, and ironically, unable to focus when it actually counts.