How Writing Changed My Life & Career

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My writing career is six years old now. But I’ve been writing since I was 16. That means I didn’t get any visible benefits from it for years.

Why did I still continue writing all those years?

  1. It’s therapeutic
    We all drive ourselves crazy with excessive thinking at times. But when you put your thoughts into words, they become less scary. When you write down what scares you, you will automatically work on a solution. Sometimes the solution is acceptance. But you need to write those things down first. Having a simple journaling app that makes the whole process easier is also helpful.
  2. It improves your self-discipline
    Living a life of pleasure is simple. Everyone can “Netflix and chill.” It’s easy to “hang out” all the time. But those easy things will not give you inner satisfaction. The reason that we don’t do anything useful with our precious time is that we lack self-discipline. But when you write every day, you strengthen your discipline. You can use that better self-discipline to achieve virtually anything in life.
  3. You become a better persuader
    Writing is nothing more than persuading the reader with words. But your tools are limited—you can only use words to tell a story. And when you write for yourself, you’re trying to convince yourself of your own thoughts. So the more you write, the better you become at persuasion.
  4. You improve your self-knowledge
    Nothing will help you to get to know yourself more than translating your thoughts into words. When you force yourself to write every day, you automatically become more aware of your thoughts. And self-awareness is one of the most important skills that predict career success.
  5. It helps you to make better decisions
    Too often, we do something without fully understanding why we do it. Think about it. How often do you answer “I don’t know” when someone asks you “Why did you do that?” That’s the sign of weak thinking. Sure, we don’t know everything. But we must be aware of that too. And when you write about your decision-making process, you will automatically become more aware of the “why.”
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Make Something Different Out Of Yourself Every 3 Years

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When I was finishing grad school by the end of 2010, like everyone that leaves school, I had to build a career. I didn’t think about making something different then.

Instead of getting a management traineeship, like most of my fellow business administration students did, I started a business.

That forced me to totally reinvent myself. As an employee or student, you’re used to people telling you what to do. But as an entrepreneur, you’re the one who gives the orders and executes them.

Every year, I kept improving myself and acquiring new skills, one after the other. I learned how to build a website, write copy, and everything else you need to know to run your own business.

But after three years, I hit a ceiling. I never worked for a major company and I felt I needed that experience to become a better leader so I could grow my company.

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Can You Ever Be ‘Done’ With Personal Development?

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I often hear people saying stuff like, “You don’t need to read non-fiction books anymore!” They pretend they somehow “graduated” from the whole personal development movement.

“I stopped listening to podcasts,” is another one of those statements. Every time I hear something like that, one word comes to mind: Arrogance.

When people say they are done with learning, what are they really saying? They are saying they are too good for the knowledge that other people are sharing.

They are saying, “I don’t need this. I know it better.” And that’s exactly the type of person I don’t relate to.

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Writing As A Spiritual Exercise

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Writing is also a spiritual exercise. I was writing everyday years before I made a living as a writer. When I started writing, I immediately sensed that it changed my life.

It didn’t only improve my career and skills—writing every day was therapeutic as well. I didn’t realize why that was at the time.

But when I recently read The Inner Citadel by Pierre Hadot, which is an analysis of Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations, I realized why that was.

After analyzing the Stoic classic, Meditations, Hadot concluded that Marcus wrote it for himself. The book was never meant to be published. So why did Marcus write? Mainly, because of two reasons:

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