Why Losing My Purpose Almost Derailed Me

Losing My Purpose

I went through a little crisis of purpose over the last year.

You see, I started writing full-time in 2015. And I pretty much dedicated my entire life to building my career. I looked at it this way. First, improve your skills, then earn money, and finally, invest it so you no longer have to worry about financial constraints and paying bills.

I worked on my skills by learning and immediately applying them. I committed to reading 2 hours a day and writing pretty much the rest of my day. I think the best way to learn is to do something publicly. You can write as much as you want behind closed doors, but you will lack the challenge you need to improve yourself.

Writing publicly is scary. People might not like it. Or worse, you might get ignored. But you need that type of friction or pressure to improve. If there’s nothing at stake, why would you push yourself harder to improve?

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3 Reasons Most People Are Never Satisfied

Satisfied vs dissatisfied

There’s a big chance that you’re currently not satisfied with something in your life. What’s something you feel like you’re lacking?

  • More money?
  • A rich social life?
  • Being happily married?
  • The freedom to travel the world?

Even if you’re satisfied with your life today, there must have been a time when you were not. And at some point, you will probably feel like that again.

I’ve had that state of mind many times. In fact, I was dissatisfied with my life during most of my adult years.

It’s only in the last couple of years that I learned what it means to feel satisfied. Before that, I was always seeking.

But was I really seeking?

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The Pursuit of Good Writing

The Pursuit of Good Writing

Over the last few weeks, I’ve been watching a lot of YouTube videos about doing handyman stuff around the house.

You know, stuff like how to properly renovate your house. For example, I’ve used a drill many times to put together IKEA stuff.

And I’ve also drilled holes in the ceiling to hang a lamp. But I never took the time to properly learn everything about drilling.

What are all the different settings on a drill, and what are they exactly used for? What type of drill bit should you use for what job?

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Deep Thinking: The Most Important Thing to Boost Focus

deep thinking

A few days ago I was catching up with a friend, and our conversation drifted to focus. We both agreed that staying focused feels harder than ever. 

Everyone I talk to seems to be fighting the same battle. Even when we’ve cut down on social media and turned off notifications, our minds wander.

That chat stuck with me. I wondered why focus remains elusive even when we avoid obvious distractions. 

I pulled out my journal and asked: “Why can’t we focus?”

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